Txawm tias qee tus yuav nyuaj rau ntseeg, tus miv muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv koj ntau dua. Qhov tseeb, qee zaum miv tuaj yeem tiv thaiv zoo li dev. Txawm li cas los xij, nws tsis zoo li tus miv yuav ua rau kev ua phem rau lub cev tshwj tsis yog nws tseem ceeb. Thaum tus miv lub ntuj teb yog kom khiav tawm qhov teeb meem, a miv tuaj yeem tiv thaiv nws tus tswv.
Cov miv tiv thaiv tus tswv?
Miv feem ntau yog stereotyped as standoffish thiab aloof, txawm rau cov neeg uas hlub lawv tshaj, tab sis qhov tseeb yog miv tuaj yeem tiv thaiv lawv tib neeg li dev yog ntawm lawv… Ntau zaus, miv sim tiv thaiv lawv niam lawv txiv los ntawm cov neeg uas lawv xav tias yog qhov txaus ntshai.
Cov miv puas muaj kev nyab xeeb nrog lawv tus tswv?
Miv yog cov tsiaj qab zib uas nyiam cuddle nrog lawv tus tswv - thiab kev tshawb fawb tau ua pov thawj tias miv yeej tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov tswv li dev. … 'Tab sis feem ntau ntawm cov miv siv lawv tus tswv ua qhov kev nyab xeeb Koj tus miv nyob ntawm koj kom muaj kev nyab xeeb thaum lawv ntxhov siab.
miv puas yuav tua lawv tus tswv?
Denver psychologist Max Wachtel hais rau USA Hnub no tias ib qho ntawm yog vim li cas miv tsis tua lawv tus tswv yog vim lawv ua tsis tau. Miv tsis muaj cov hniav sib tsoo uas dev muaj, txhais tau tias nws tsis zoo li lawv yuav muaj peev xwm tua tau tib neeg loj hlob nrog lawv tom.
Tus miv puas yuav tua nws tus tswv?
Muaj ntau yam laj thawj uas vim li cas miv mam li nco dheev lawv cov tswv suav nrog kev ua si tsis raug, kev ua yeeb yam, kev ntshai, lossis teeb meem kho mob. Qhov xwm zoo yog tias, nrog lub sijhawm thiab ua siab ntev, qhov teeb meem feem ntau tuaj yeem kho kho.
