Tsis txhob xav qhia rau ib tus neeg tsis quav ntsej txog qhov teeb meem. Nws tuaj yeem txhais tau tias "tsis hais" lossis "tsis muaj tseeb." Tsis txhob hnov qab yuav tsum yog ob lo lus nyob rau hauv yuav luag tag nrho cov ntsiab lus. Tsis nco qab (ib lo lus) yog ib feem ntawm cov lus hais "[yuav ib yam dab tsi] tsis txhob xav. "
Yuav tsis hais ib lo lus tiag?
Tsis txhob xav yog feem ntau sau ua ob lo lus-tsuas yog siv los ua tus npe. Qhov kaw (lossis hyphenated) noun form, nevermind, is dialectal and has the meaning of "interest," "concern," or "attention." Nws, zoo li nws cov nkauj muam nraug nus sib txuas, yog siv rau hauv cov ntsiab lus hais txog kev tsis saib xyuas, tsis saib xyuas, lossis kev tshem tawm.
Puas hais lus tsis txaus siab?
Tsis txhob xav tsis yog nws tus kheej, tab sis koj xav kom koj siv lub suab zoo thaum koj hais. Yog koj hais tias "tsis txhob ua siab deb" rudely, ces nws pom tseeb tias yuav dhau los ua phem.
Puas yog tsis xav li ntawd los tsis txhob xav li?
Kua 'Cia li' thiab ' than ' Sib caisTxoj kev ua kom tus khub ncaj yog tsom rau qhov sib txawv no: dua li siv thaum koj' rov hais txog kev sib piv; tom qab ntawd siv thaum koj tab tom tham txog qee yam ntsig txog lub sijhawm. Tshaj yog lo lus xaiv hauv kab lus xws li me dua, smoother dua, thiab ntxiv dua.
Tsis txhob xav li cas?
1 -siv qhia rau ib tug neeg kom tsis txhob txhawj lossis tsis quav ntsej txog qee yam lossis lwm tus Tsis txhob hnov qab koj qhov yuam kev: nws tsis hnyav. Yog li koj ua yuam kev me ntsis! Tsis txhob mloog (txog qhov ntawd): nws tsis loj.'
