Tus neeg lees paub qhov txhaum tsis poob kev hwm, lawv tau txais nws … los yog hem lawv lub neej, lossis ua rau lawv qaug zog - tab sis lawv xav tias muaj tseeb rau tus neeg uas xav tias lawv yuav tsum tshwm sim zoo tag nrho, muaj zog, thiab tswj tau.
hu li cas thaum koj lees tias ua yuam kev?
confess. lus qhia. lees tias koj tau ua ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm.
Koj hais li cas thaum ib tug lees tias lawv tsis yog?
Qee zaum yuav tsim nyog rau cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg thiab lwm tus rau cov xwm txheej ua haujlwm:
- Ua tsaug rau koj hais. Kuv chim rau _, thiab kuv zoo siab koj nkag siab qhov ntawd. Cia peb mus.
- Kuv txaus siab rau koj thov txim. Kuv tseem chim, tiam sis kuv yuav tsis kawg.
- Kuv nkag siab, txhua tus ua yuam kev.
hu li cas thaum ib tus neeg lees paub tsis raug?
Tus neeg yuav yog tsis tuaj yeem. incorrigible: tsis muaj peev xwm kho lossis hloov kho. Hauv cov ntsiab lus, lo lus feem ntau txhais tau tias tus neeg ntawd tsis teb zoo rau kev thuam lossis lees qhov txhaum.
Vim li cas nyuaj rau ib tug lees tias lawv tsis yog?
Raws li tus kws kho mob hlwb, tus hais lus thiab tus sau Guy Winch, feem ntau cov neeg uas pheej tsis kam lees tias lawv tsis yog ua li ntawd vim lawv muaj lub cev tsis muaj zog txausLawv npuaj teg thiab hais lawv 'yog lawm, qhia tau hais tias cov kws txawj hais tias "kev puas siab puas ntsws rigidity", raws li kev tiv thaiv mechanism.
