Ultimatums tau qhov phem rap ntau dua tsis yog, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Lawv raug suav hais tias tsis ncaj ncees, tsis noj qab haus huv, thiab tsis ncaj ncees. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov ntawd tsis yog ib txwm muaj. Qhov tseeb, qee zaum, qhov kawg, qee zaum, tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev sib raug zoo.
Puas yog muab ultimatums?
Txawm tias yuav luag tsis tau txias los muab qhov kawg rau tus neeg, yuav tsum tau ceeb toom rau lawv hais tias lawv thawb nws Qhov no muab sijhawm rau koj los sib txuas lus li cas lawv cov kev ua cuam tshuam rau koj, cia koj rov lees paub koj thaj tsam thiab ua kom pom tseeb tias koj mob siab rau lawv hloov lawv tus cwj pwm.
Ua ultimatums rhuav kev sib raug zoo?
Thaum ultimatums tuaj yeem ua rau kev sib raug zoo, kev sib yuav ultimatum yuav tsim nyog yog tias nkawm niam txiv tsoo pob zeb hauv qab.” … Kev tshaj tawm tsab ntawv kawg kom xaus rau kev coj tsis ncaj yuav yog koj txoj kev xaiv nkaus xwb. Yog tias koj siv qhov kawg, qhov no, koj yuav tsum ua raws li koj qhov kev xaiv tawm yog tias tus cwj pwm tsis zoo.
Yuav ua li cas tus neeg muab ultimatums?
Lub sijhawm, ultimatums tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm ib tus khub ( feem ntau yog txiv neej) tsis tuaj yeem ntes lwm tus khub teeb meem. Tus poj niam cia siab tias tus txiv neej yuav paub qhov tsis zoo ntawm nws yam tsis tas yuav hais. Cov txiv neej uas tsis muaj kev txawj ntse ntawm kev xav thiab kev sib txuas lus tsis nco txog cov cim uas yuav tsum pom tseeb rau cov poj niam.
Puas yog ultimatums ib txwm manipulative?
Ntseeg Ultimatums
Ultimatums like this is manipulative and mentally damaging. Thaum ib tug neeg muab ultimatums tawm, nws yog lub cim tseem ceeb uas lawv tswj thiab tsis tshua txhawj txog koj txoj kev noj qab haus huv dua li lawv tus kheej. Nov yog ib zaj dab neeg qhia txog kev tsim txom lub siab.
