Kev zam yog qhov tsis lees paub thiab tsis koom tes. Thaum zam txim, tus neeg ntawd tsis ua raws li nws qhov kev txhawj xeeb lossis lwm tus neeg.
Yuav ua li cas txhawm rau tswj kev tsis sib haum xeeb?
Tus qauv haum yog qhov sib txawv ntawm kev sib tw thiab nws daws qhov tsis sib haum xeeb los ntawm kev muab rau tus neeg tawm tsam. Tej zaum koj yuav tau siv tus cwj pwm tsis sib haum xeeb lossis tus cwj pwm thaum cuam tshuam nrog ib tus neeg uas muaj tus cwj pwm muaj zog lossis tsis zoo.
Puas zam kev lees paub lossis kev koom tes?
Kev zam (Kev lees paub qis thiab kev koom tes) - Kev xaiv tsis koom nrog kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Kev Pabcuam (Low Assertiveness thiab High Cooperativeness) – Koom nrog ib theem ntawm kev txi rau tus kheej los ntawm kev muab rau hauv, placating, thiab lwm yam.
Kev tswj kev tsis sib haum xeeb tshaj plaws yog dab tsi?
Kev zam txim . Kev zam txim yog qhov phem tshaj plaws thiab nquag siv. Lub zog ntawm cov qauv no yog tias nws tso cai rau koj xaiv koj cov kev sib ntaus sib tua, tab sis nws qhov tsis muaj zog yog tias koj tuaj yeem xaus rau hauv txoj haujlwm tsis xav tau thaum sim zam kev tsis sib haum xeeb.
Puas yog qhov tsis lees paub thiab kev sib koom tes ntawm kev tswj hwm kev tsis sib haum xeeb?
Accommodation - Tsis muaj kev lees paub, kev koom tes Chaw nyob yog tso cai rau lwm tus neeg qhov kev xav tau, feem ntau yog tus nqi ntawm koj tus kheej. Nov yog lub tswv yim tswj kev tsis sib haum xeeb muaj txiaj ntsig yog tias koj tsis quav ntsej txog qhov teeb meem, lossis yog tias koj muaj lub zog me me hauv kev sib raug zoo lossis qhov xwm txheej.