Nws yog tag nrho ib feem ntawm lub tshuab hu ua "Projective Identification". Thaum tus narcissist npau taws, tsis zoo siab, poob siab, raug mob, los yog raug mob - nws xav tsis muaj peev xwm qhia tau nws lub siab dawb paugthiab qhib siab txij li ua li ntawd yuav yog lees nws qhov kev tsis txaus siab, nws xav tau, thiab nws qaug zog.
Vim li cas tus narcissist xav ua phem rau koj?
"Narcissists yog primed ua phem vim lawv muaj kev ntxhov siab heev, thiab lawv tsis muaj kev nkag siab, thiab lawv tsis muaj qhov khoom tsis tu ncua," Greenberg hais. "Yog li lawv tau ua txhaum cai thiab ua phem thiab tsis nkag siab tiag tiag … Nws yog ntau txoj haujlwm rau tus khub uas tsis yog narcissistic. "
Vim li cas narcissists siab phem li no?
Nws yog ib txwm sib ntaus nrog koj lwm tus tseem ceeb, tab sis narcissists tuaj yeem ua phem kawg thiab hem hauv cov xwm txheej kub. Qhov no yog vim lawv tsis tuaj yeem pom koj li ib tus neeg uas lawv hlub, thiab ib tus neeg uas tau npau taws rau tib lub sijhawm.
Tus neeg tsis nyiam ua dab tsi thaum koj ua phem rau lawv?
Thaum lawv "mob," narcissists nyiam to lash tawm raws li lawv thawj kab ntawm kev tiv thaiv. Tej zaum lawv yuav xav tias txiav ib tug neeg tawm lossis txhob txwm ua phem rau lawv nrog cov lus lossis kev ua phem tuaj yeem pab lawv tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej.
Vim li cas narcissists tso koj tseg?
Nyob rau hauv cov tib neeg narcissistic, preponderance ntawm lawv lub suab tseem ceeb yog hais rau lwm tus thiab muab tso rau lwm tus kom lawv zoo siab rau lawv tus kheej.